Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Standout in the online dating profiles


There is no doubt that online dating are popular these years. A huge number of seniors join this as well. A lot senior singles start to use over 50 dating sites to find their love and romance. That’s true, a lot of research has pointed out that senior people has an important part in online dating service. But some had succeeded in finding their match online while some complained about this. We can not control the feeling between 2 people but there are some tips to help people getting more chance. Let’s learn some tips to be succeed in finding your perfect match.
Choose a suitable profile picture
Unlike the dating offline, we can not see what the man/woman look like, we can only see their profile, you will choose to contact the member or not by reading his/her profile. So we can see the importance of your profile. A great profile would attract more people’attention and winning more chance. Just do not rush to finish your profile with just a few words like ‘If you want to know more about me, just feel free to ask’etc.
We are not asking you to judge a profile by photo, but the truth is that people would still consider looks when they browse thousands of profiles. According to senior dating sites resource, a profile with photo got 20 times more chance than a profile without photo. A lot people choose ‘show profiles with photos’ when they start to search profiles. Those profiles without profile do not even have the chance to show in front of the Daters. You can also think from your own perspective, would you like to see a profile with photo or without photo? Since a profile photo maters so much, you should choose a good picture of yourself. Again, there are some suggestions for how to choose a suitable picture especially for over 50 people. A picture of you taken not long ago which can show how you looks recently. We can see someone place the photo of themselves when they are 25! We know time changes us all. Do you think the one who will date you can recognize you from your 30years ago photo? Also, be real. Do not post any photoshopped pictures. Sometimes they are too gorgeous to be true and they can not recognize you when you meet or they may doubt your identity. If you have more pics to display that would be even better, these photos would show your colorful life and different aspect of you. Also include a closeup photo that people can see clearly.
Complete profile, be real 
Next is your profile. As we have noted, profile is the important for a person to know you. So do not rush to finish it with just‘ask me’ or something similar. Nobody would bother to ask you without knowing anything about you. So complete your profile with real information, share your interests etc. Let people know more about you, they may contact because you have shared the same interests, who knows. Show more aspect of you as possible then the chance increases. This is only chance people know your before they decide if they would like to further communicate with you. Humorous is also important, even over 50 but most people still fun and young at heart and this is an important factor when they looking for their match. You may be attractive if you show your humor in your profile a little. 
I hope the above gives you some idea of how to get more attention on these dating sites for over50 people. Wish you can find your match.

Friday, October 5, 2012

Safety tips for online dating


Here we have c0llected some of the online dating safety tips from members of different dating sites or from people who has some experience in online dating. They would like to share tips/suggestions for people who are experiencing online dating especially senior people dating. Let’s hear their voice.
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Where to Meet in the beginning?

When meeting someone, meet in a public place, and make it a large public place like a shopping mall. When leaving your first meeting with this person, tell this person that you are going to do a little shopping and then actually go around to several stores (make sure this person is not following you) before you go out to your car. Also, when walking out to your call, look around to make sure this person is not just driving around the mall waiting for you to come out! If you decide to meet up with the person again, always tell the person that you will meet at the designated place and do the same routine of parking far enough away and leaving alone to go to your car. You need to do this until you feel comfortable seeing this person. Also, keep doing all your contact through the dating site until you feel comfortable and still always let someone know where you are going.
Do Not Easily Give Your Phone Number!

Before giving out any real identifying information about yourself, meet in person at in a busy public place. If you need to make a call first, use Skype or something else that can be anonymous.

Protect your phone number.....

I had one guy text pictures of his penis for two days straight. My cell service will not allow me to block my number so I don't give it out.
Never send other members money.
I got this safety tip from many online dating sites. Yes, Remember, never.

Let your friend know

I am on a singles site - have met a couple of nice guys - BUT - always tell someone where you are going and when you come home - call that person so they know you are safe - this is a rule I have with one of my friends - always let her know where I'm going an call her as soon as I get in - Number One - BE SAFE!
Also- ALWAYS meet at a resturant - like I do - or even Wal-Mart where I met one guy. And ALWAYS tell someone where you are going! I am happy with online dating - I have had a lot of luck - as at my age 65 - its hard to meet anyone. Good luck to everyone!!!!!

Slow is the way to go

I've met a number of very nice gentlemen online, and did meet several in person for coffee dates; very casual, safe. One fellow came on like gangbusters. He was charming, funny, well-educated and my perfect match. Or so I thought. It turned out he has Borderline Personality Disorder, lies compulsively, and meets a new "soul mate" with alarming frequency. We dated very briefly, but several months later he was still stalking me--and from what I've been told, he may randomly show up in my life for years. Stick to all your safety rules, and go very, very slowly. If he or she is truly "the ONE" they will be after several months or a year. Also, if the other person claims to share all your interests, probe to see just how deep those interests really go...

Take it  Slow

Online dating can be a great way to find romance--I met my wife online--but the secret is to go slow and trust your instincts. One benefit of online dating is that it lets you get to know a person before getting tangled up in physical appearance or sexual chemistry. Use that advantage and take time to get to know someone before arranging a face-to-face meeting. And if something doesn't feel right at any step along the way, pay attention to those feelings. You can always cut things off and go check out some other profiles.

Tell a Friend

I tell at least one friend where I'm going and who I'll be with, and I ask someone to call my cell to check on me at a certain time. This also helps to get me out of bad dates faster. :-)
These are really helpful and important experience/tips from people who have already experienced much. Take them into consideration and it would help. Finally, hope you find a suitable senior dating sites  and find your luck there.

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